I hear quite often (in fact, it might even be considered bitching!!!) from guy friends about how “all the girls just want to date bad boys”. Apparently, it’s an epidemic. Personally I think it is a misinterpretation.
Women don’t want to date “bad boys”. When I think of a bad boy I think of someone with limited education, a criminal record and an overabundance of tattoos. Not sexy.
Women just don’t want to date wimps. Period.
Someday, if I'm a nice boy I may get to touch a boob. Maybe...
Let me break this down for you. That’s right. Grab pad and pencil because The Love Doctor is about to speak.
A wimp is about as likely to get a woman turned on as Conan The Barbarian is to take part in Swan Lake.
Ignore these helpful tips and you are on your own. I even know where you’re going to be sitting…in that delightful little place ALL women have called “the friend zone.” Seriously, we’ve got a seat all reserved for you.
To begin, women DO love a kind and sensitive man they can trust who treats them with respect. However, there are times when too much chivalry becomes a handicap. If I am on a date and I am feeling lukewarm about a guy, wimpy behavior will ALWAYS kill my girly hard on.
"May I please touch your boob? Please?"
Example: “Can I kiss you?” I am a big fan of manners but if things are going the way they should be, I will be sending you signals. NEVER ASK. If you have to ask, it would probably be a very bad idea. Strike “probably”, it IS a bad idea.
Example: “Can I hold your hand?” I have to admit, from the female perspective, it is really sexy when the guy just casually and naturally reaches down and takes my hand in his. It could be while we are crossing a street or sitting in a cab. It’s a turn on. However, the catch is, it cannot look contrived or as if you put a load of time into thinking about it or getting your nerve up. Guys, don’t take her hand if yours is clammy, wait until you’ve chilled the fuck out if you’re feeling nervous.
Look what happens when you say "yes" to the guy who asks permission. Geeky babies...on the upside though, they will probably always obey you.
The point here is, it’s weird if you ask to do “xyz”…the woman wonders, “what next? May I remove your bra?” Or “pardon me, I was wondering if I could have your permission to have sexual intercourse with you this evening?” It’s an ugly, downward spiral. You don’t want this. Trust me.
EMBRACE your inner manly man.
Before you run to kill a twelve pack and crush the empty cans against your head listen for a minute.
I’m not talking a
Han Solo doesn't ask permission. Han Solo is like a chocolate lava cake served on a chocolate platter with a side of new designer shoes and...well.. you get the idea.
bout benching 300 or being able to catch a hockey puck in your teeth. What I am trying to say is women like a man who knows his own worth. A man who has the ability to walk the very fine line between egotistical and confident behavior. Confident and attentive men don’t need to ask for permission. They pay attention to the situation and if they feel that the light is green, they go for it. They don’t talk about it….and it’s smokin’ hot when they go for it.
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