People have different reasons for cheating their partners or putting themselves in an illicit relationship or discreet affair. Usually, men do it for four reasons:
• Virility. Men want assurance that they are still virile and desirable even though they are already married. It boosts their ego to get attention and acknowledgment from women other than their wife.
• Excitement. There are men who believe that having a discreet relationship is more exciting than having a legal one. For some married men, this allows them to relieve their excitement felt during their early dating days.
• Sex. Boring sex is often the major reason why men go astray. When they realize that sex with their wives is not happening as frequently and as exciting as before, they try to look for it somewhere else.
• Exits. Men who feel trapped of their current relationship and duty as a breadwinner make affairs as the escape route to relive family pressures.
Meanwhile, here are the top reasons why some women cheat:
• Attention. Women usually want to get more attention. If they do not get enough attention or emotional needs at home, they try to find it elsewhere.
• Sex. It is not as prevalent compared to men, but women still consider desire for more sex as one of the reasons for cheating.
• Escape. There are times when women get bored on their daily routines at home. So, they consider cheating as a way to escape boredom.
Generally, cheaters consider a discreet affair as a way to temporarily forget their problems or escape their current depressing situation.
However, discreet relationship is not always easy and healthy. Aside from ruining the marital relationship, it always has an emotional effect on the children. Therefore, it’s wise to just stay away from any affair as much as possible, and if ever you suspect your partner to be having an affair, address it at once and resolve any relationship issues you have before it leads to divorce.
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